Many parents assume a child can simply "decide" at age 12 or 14. Under Australian family law, there is no such threshold. Here is what courts actually weigh, and when a child's preference starts to carry real weight.
When it comes to estate planning in blended families, one of the more awkward questions is if parents can favour a stepchild over their biological children in their will.
In this case, Sophie’s father left his entire $1.8 million estate, including a Brighton home in Melbourne, to his stepdaughter Emma. Sophie, his biological daughter, received nothing. As discussed in our TikTok video and its follow-up, the situation became a legal battle that put Victoria’s succession laws to the test.
@kingsford.lawyers $1.8M to the stepdaughter. $0 to the biological daughter. Can you guess what the court did? 🚨 Sophie cared for her dying dad for years. Sunday dinners, birthdays, hospital visits. Then she read his will: everything, the Brighton home, the super, the investments, went to Emma, his stepdaughter of a few years. Sophie? Nothing. Emma said “the will is clear, end of story.” But Sophie believes her dad just never updated it after his wife died. So now it’s in court. One of them walks away with $1.8 million. The other gets nothing. Drop your verdict: SOPHIE WINS or EMMA WINS 👇 Part 2 reveals what the court actually ruled. #KingsfordLawyers #AustralianLaw #WillsAndEstates #Inheritance #FamilyProvision ♬ original sound – Kingsford Lawyers
Sophie’s parents divorced when she was twelve. Her dad remarried Linda, who had Emma from a previous relationship. Despite the divorce, Sophie maintained a close relationship with her father for decades, sharing Sunday dinners, birthdays and holidays. She even helped care for him during his illness.
When he passed away, Sophie expected to inherit something. Instead, the will left everything to Emma. Linda, the stepmother, had passed away a few years earlier, and Sophie believed her dad simply never updated his will. Emma argued the will was clear: she was named, Sophie wasn’t. End of story. Or was it?
No you do not have to leave your estate and money to your children in Victoria. In fact, you have the legal right to leave your estate to anyone you choose, including leaving everything to a stepchild and nothing to your biological children.
(Vic) Victorian law generally allows you to leave your estate to whoever you choose. However, Part IV of the Administration and Probate Act 1958 lets certain ‘eligible persons’ ask the court for further provision if they’re left without adequate support.
@kingsford.lawyers PART 2: The court made its decision. Sophie got… 🚨 SPOILER!!! $600,000. Out of the $1.8 million estate, Sophie was awarded $600K. Emma kept $1.2M. Here's what changed everything: In Victoria, courts can actually override a will through a "family provision claim" if it fails to adequately provide for someone's maintenance and support. Sophie proved she had a lifelong relationship with her dad, genuine financial needs (she was renting with no property), and had cared for him when he was sick. The court said it was wrong for her to get nothing. Yes, a parent can write you out of their will, but that's not always the end of the story. If it's unfair, you can challenge it. Did you guess right? And do you think $600K was fair or should Sophie have gotten more? 👇 #KingsfordLawyers #AustralianLaw #WillsAndEstates #FamilyProvision #ContestingAWill ♬ original sound – Kingsford Lawyers
Under Victorian succession law, stepchildren can be eligible applicants in Victoria if they fit certain statutory categories (for example, minors, full‑time students 18–25, stepchildren with a disability or certain dependent relationships). They are not automatically eligible in every case.
Furthermore, unlike biological or adopted children, stepchildren don’t automatically inherit if you die without a valid will (known as dying intestate). However, they are explicitly included as eligible persons who can make a family provision claim under the Administration and Probate Act.
This means stepchildren can be included in your will, but their legal standing differs significantly when there’s no will or when challenging an existing will. However, recent Victorian Supreme Court decisions have noted, “the time when stepchildren should be considered to have a far inferior claim to the natural child of a testator has well passed.”
If you leave everything to your stepchild and nothing to your biological children, those biological children have the right to contest your will through a family provision application. According to the Administration and Probate Act, the Victorian Supreme Court or County Court can order that additional provision be made from your estate if they determine you failed to make adequate provision for a child’s proper maintenance and support.
Victorian courts consider numerous factors when deciding family provision claims:
In Sophie’s case, the court awarded her $600,000 from the estate. Here’s why:
Sophie had maintained a close, lifelong relationship with her father. She’d helped care for him during his illness and had genuine financial needs, renting with no property of her own. The court found it was inappropriate for her to receive nothing from the $1.8 million estate.
Victorian law allows courts to override a will if it fails to adequately provide for someone’s proper maintenance and support. The court assessed Sophie’s circumstances against the size of the estate and determined that her father had a moral duty to provide for her that the will failed to meet.
Emma kept $1.2 million, but Sophie walked away with a $600,000 share. This demonstrates that a will isn’t always the final word in Victoria.
Family provision applications in Victoria must be lodged within strict timeframes. Eligible applicants have six months from the date the Supreme Court grants probate or letters of administration to file their claim.
This six-month deadline is firm. The court can grant extensions in limited circumstances, usually where:
However, such extensions are discretionary and not routinely granted. Once the estate has been completely administered and assets finally distributed, late claims will not be permitted.
If you genuinely wish to favour a stepchild over biological children, there are legitimate ways to strengthen your estate plan:
It’s worth noting that if you formally adopted your stepchild, they become legally equivalent to a biological child for all succession purposes. Once adopted, a child has the same automatic inheritance rights as any biological child and stands on equal footing in any family provision claim.
Myth 1: “It’s my money, I can do whatever I want” While technically true, Victorian law provides mechanisms for unfairly excluded family members to challenge your will through Part IV claims.
Myth 2: “Adult children can’t make claims” Age doesn’t disqualify someone from making a family provision claim. Adult children can successfully challenge wills if they can demonstrate inadequate provision for their proper maintenance and support.
Myth 3: “Stepchildren have no rights” Stepchildren are explicitly included as eligible applicants under the Administration and Probate Act and can make family provision claims if they can establish the deceased had a responsibility to provide for them.
Estate planning in blended families requires careful consideration and open communication. Here’s what you should do:
Under Victorian law, the relationship between a stepchild and stepparent generally ends when the domestic partnership or marriage ends through separation or divorce, unless the child was formally adopted. Victorian courts have clarified that by analogy with the common law position, the stepparent-stepchild relationship ends if the domestic partnership dissolves before the stepparent’s death.
However, the relationship continues after the death of the natural parent, meaning a stepchild can still make a claim even after their biological parent has died, provided the relationship with the stepparent hadn’t ended through separation or divorce.
This is crucial for those in second or third marriages who may have stepchildren from multiple relationships.
Victorian family provision claims can be brought in either the County Court of Victoria or the Supreme Court of Victoria. Generally:
The choice of court can affect costs and procedures, so legal advice is essential.
Victorian law introduces an important concept not always emphasised in other states: the deceased’s “moral duty” or “responsibility” to provide for the applicant. The court must be satisfied that:
This means the court examines not just financial need, but the nature of the relationship and what moral obligation existed between the deceased and the applicant.
In Victoria, family provision claims can only be made against assets in the deceased’s estate, meaning:
Assets owned jointly with another person, or held in a company or family trust, are generally not available to satisfy claims. This is an important consideration in estate planning for blended families.
Remember, every family situation is unique. The key is planning carefully, documenting thoroughly, and seeking expert legal advice to navigate the intricate balance between your wishes and your legal obligations to those who depend on you.
At Kingsford Lawyers, our wills and estate lawyers have extensive experience assisting clients with estate planning across Queensland and Victoria. As your legal allies, we provide upfront, honest advice you can actually understand, helping you learn all your options and take the right steps to protect your family.
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Many parents assume a child can simply "decide" at age 12 or 14. Under Australian family law, there is no such threshold. Here is what courts actually weigh, and when a child's preference starts to carry real weight.
Many parents assume a child can simply "decide" at age 12 or 14. Under Australian family law, there is no such threshold. Here is what courts actually weigh, and when a child's preference starts to carry real weight.
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